i won't deny that life sometimes gets in the way - my family and i have been in dire straights ourselves over the past two weeks alone - SERIOUS stuff as well - but i've always gotten back to him. Moreover he has gotten back to me a couple of times, but then goes AWOL on me again immediately afterwards. This also doesn't appear to be the first time this has happened to him as well...
I opened up a case because if I don't hear back from him, then at least i get my money back, rather than trusting someone who has been (at least with this transaction) reliably unreliable to get back to me and follow through with it all. Though i would MUCH prefer to just finish this deal off than have my parts then to have to go through all this paypal nonsense. Admittedly it may be due to unforeseen circumstances and i'm open to that, but nonetheless the point still stands - knowing the reason why he's been unreliable doesn't mean he's been any less unreliable. I'm sure i'm not the only one who's feeling this way as well...
i would definitely grant the "slack" concession if more people weren't going through exactly the same thing (always disconcerting) and if paypal were more slack on me with their buyer protection policy - but the window period is closing soon and thus the hand is forced. But they have those 45 day periods for a reason you know - the reason being its annoying to wait around for that long!
I feel bad for saying all of this because it would hurt if someone said it about me, but this is not proven to be a very communicative or clean deal...
*sigh* ...i just. want. to play. my drums! but i can't until i get the parts i need