i think there are even more "camps" then that.
i myself have always been a player..but i have extreme OCD when it comes to anything..esp vintage drums.
i play them (my own home/recording) but i also like finding all the hardware that was period correct for that drumset. i personally just think it looks better that way. plus i think playing with old hardware (high-hat/kick pedal) could make you a better drummer. i can play a lot of Zeppelin using my DW 9000 single kick..but trying to do it with a 60's Speed-King is a different story.
i just recently got a kit that is the end all be all for me..
i paid a lot (to me..not rich like a lot of others on this forum)
and to me (as of now) its an absolutely ludicrous idea to gig with them.
maybe for certain shows/venues i'll consider it..but as of now..no way.
they just mean way to much to me..would you bring your small petite significant other to a metal show? ;)