[COLOR="Blue"]Who am I to tell you that your opions on this subject are wrong? But, I stongly disagree with you. Drums (no matter how much we love them) are just like any other "widget" that people decide to collect. Collecting DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY EQUATE TO HOARDING. Those of us who collect anything have our reasons for doing what we do. To call us unstable reeks of elitism and smugness or possibly fear. Your family connection with hoarding seems to have slanted your thinking related to hobbyists who take great joy from our collections. My collection is always evolving, and is limited to the eight or nine sets that comfortably fit in my drum room. If I find a drum set that I want, a drum set in my drum room will need to go in order to accomodate the new acquisition. Consequently, I have passed on acquiring some nice vintage drum sets at bargain prices because I don't want to get rid of any that I already own. I am very content with my version of collecting in my retirement years the "tools of ignorance" that helped me enjoy my youth, adolescence, early adult years, and the rest of my life. If we ever downsize in living space, I will prioritize which drums end up as my keepers, and which ones are sold off to other lovers of vintage drums.[/COLOR]
Not that it really matters, but you absolutely missed the points of my post. I never stated that collecting automatically equates to hoarding. Mainly because that statement makes no sense with the current word choice. Do me a favor ... read the post again and pull out the exact statement that supports your refute. Thanks.
Also ...
I'm not the one who called anyone unstable. I'm just stating current research. If you are unhappy with the findings, I really can't help you. It's not my findings.
I would invite you to research the topic yourself and come to terms with it however you might.
You honestly don't have to justify any part of your collecting to me or anyone else.
If you carry an opinion, good. But take the time to educate yourself on the topic prior to disagreeing with another. Otherwise it's just a long distance peeing contest.
Please, research the topic for yourself. I'm not attacking you or anyone else. These are facts.