Another side of this is that I've had so many times when it sounded like total garbage and people came up and said it sounded great and other times when I know it sounded great and people said nothing... or worse! CryBaby So in the end, hate to say this, but I don't really put a whole lot of stock in what other people say compared to what I know, if that makes sense.Also, music isn't really about sound, it's about feel, and it can sound great and feel rotten and vice versa. You don't have to have much music education to realize that feel trumps sound any day of the week.Ideally of course, it should both feel and sound phenomenal! :2Cents:
You've missed a disturbingly vital aspect out of the equation: it has to be entertaining. I've sat and listened to really fine players with a great sound and a wonderful feel, yet it's been like watching paint dry. Ultimately, we have to be entertainers. We recently had a viewer's poll TV program that had Keith Moon pitted against John Bonham as the world's greatest rock drummer; hard call, I thought. I knew them both personally, and had been watching and listening to them play from the start, but this was an audience choice. I felt sure they would go for Mooney because of his showmanship, but Bonzo got the vote! I felt absolutely elated, because feel and finesse had triumphed. Not that I didn't respect Keith's abilities - he was a wizard; and not that I felt John wasn't a showman, because he certainly was. And, in fact, many of the viewer's comments were that he was equally as attractive a performer as Planty and far more so than Page. Point is, no-one ever told me that I sounded crap, cos I didn't; but if I had, they sure as hell would have let me know. You need to be good looking too.