thanks for the replies everyone - I wasn't really interested in a partial refund and the main reason why is he wasn't up front about the condition of the drums - had I known before hand I would have passed on the kit - I play nice gear, take care of my gear and if someone is selling nice gear they get my hard earned money - the other thing that really turned me off was his comments about the hoop - first there were no issues, then there was but he didn't mention it, then he didn't care about mentioning it because to HIM it didn't matter - anyway, I have paypal involved and hopefully this will be behind me soon
I've got a rope, let's string him up! There ain't no room in these parts for a no good, dirty lowdown, swindling varment!
Get a grip man! It's hoop rash where a foot pedal hooks up to, there's going to be hoop rash. Ask him for a $300 refund to more than compensate for the minor issues and enjoy the kit. Don't let your pride get in the way, it's still nice gear!
People make mistakes, he made one by not disclosing the rash and you made one by paying with the gift option. You can still win without stressing yourself out over such minor issues.