Yes. First off, don't get married. I'm 40 years old and was married at one time. She wanted a divorce and was interested in taking at least half of my collection.. That wasn't going to happen. She'd come to the shows I'd play and complain. Hated when I went on tour (which wasn't for very long). If the partner you are with can't take you for what you have in your life, then it's not worth it. Drums are my life. Luckily, I have a long time girlfriend who not only understands vintage drums and likes them almost the same way as I do, But she excepts me for who I am and what I do for a living. (Which is play music)
Note: I'm not relying on her in any shape form or fashion financially.
Now keep in mind, If you are already married please don't let me stir things up between you and your wife. If you are happy with her. Then by all means just win the lotto or something so she won't mind it as much you buying more drums. :)
I hope this helps you at least a little. How old are you if you don't mind me asking