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I saw that someone asked about my health over here so I am posting this in response. I post here so infrequently that I didnt think to post this here. I hope I did not offend the forum. I do have drum brother here and I apologize...

I find it hard to know where to begin...

I just got back from UCLA and talking to my oncologist who I have trusted with my life over the last 8 years. Because of the progression of my cancer over the last three months he believes that the immuno treatment I am now on has failed as have the two others I have had. It looks like my time has been shortened and can be measured in weeks instead of months or years.

A few weeks ago I sent out an email to my family and friends letting them know that my doctors believe that my time here on planet earth is about to come to an end. I have been saying my goodbys to them. My sisters came for two weeks and took care of me as I deal with pain and exhaustion that this cancer has thrown against me. My oldest son also flew in from Missouri to help out as well as pick up the tools and equipment that I have been using to build drums.

I want at this time to reach out to my brothers and sisters here to say goodbye. I know it is not the norm to doing something like this, but I have never been part of the norm in my life. I also believe seeing a “RIP” just seems so abrupt. I feel blessed that I can take the time to say goodbye to all of you. I have many many friends and even some I consider true bothers here. This has always been my sanctuary to escape into.

I have made business friendships here that ended up being part of J-M as well as just some good old fashioned buddy’s.

I wont carry on as the emotion is too much right now.

My love goes out to all in this drumming community.

I have found peace about this.

May we all meet again....

Jerry

"Blaemire Archaeologist"
Posted on 10 years ago
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Jerry no apologies are needed. you are my friend and drum brother you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.

Your drummers not much good is he!? What you need is someone that's as good as me. ! John Henry Bonham !!
Posted on 10 years ago
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Jerry God speed may He make your journey as spirited as can be the strength you show will carry you on my prayers are with you and your family gary

April 2nd 1969 scarfed pink champagne holly wood and 65/66 downbeat snare, and , supra same year very minty kit old pies
66/67 downbeat with canister
Super 400 small round knob
1967 super classic obp





once the brass ceases to glitter, and the drum looses its luster, and the stage remains dark, all you have left is the timbre of family.
Posted on 10 years ago
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Dear Jerry,

I can't say I know you but your post touched my heart. You are my drum brother

...and you always will be

I said a prayer for you and your family.

Rob

Posted on 10 years ago
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Jerry.

I don't know you at all but my heart goes out to you and your family. This could not have been easy to write ... it's difficult to imagine all that you're going through but it's a blessing that you have a little time for goodbyes.

I hope a whole lot of peace comes because of all the love you have yet to share.

Chris

Posted on 10 years ago
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May the road rise,and may you find peace Jerry.

Steve B

Posted on 10 years ago
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So very sad to read this. May you pass peacefully surrounded by loved ones.

Mitch

Posted on 10 years ago
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Peace and Light...we are only here for a moment. It is a road we all will travel one day. Blessings to you !

Posted on 10 years ago
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Jerry: Ive been aware of your situation for a while and I've been praying to my God for you and your family. You've left a legacy that so many here will surely be proud to honor. There's is no words for this. I can only say that you won't be forgotten. Go in peace, Brother.

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Posted on 10 years ago
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Jerry,

I can't say I have ever read or replied to a post like this before. I admire your courage and wish you a peaceful journey. May God be with you and your family.

Aaron

- EMD
Posted on 10 years ago
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