I vote that you live vicariously through others drums via refinishing.
The kits you have veneered are top notch. Sell the less desirables and start refinishing others drums (for money of course)
Do you think Steve Maxwell keeps all of those fantastic drums he gets his hands on? No. But does he get to play on them? I'm sure.
I know its hard to let go, I've recently sold and gave away 3 sets that I had. To focus on the real vintage sets that got me playing in the first place.
Two days ago on Craigslist there was a Stewart blue sparkle clubdate copy for $100 with cymbals, original heads top and bottom, and working consolette! It took a lot of actually talking out loud to myself to stop from calling that phone number.
And by the way very few of us are professional drummers.