I'm taking them with me!
You know a brass snare could make an awesome urn.
Or maybe some bass drums butted up end to end ( depending on height and width) could make a cool casket!
All kidding aside, I have no children, my brother who is older than I by six years plays drums, so if either of us dies maybe the other would take the others drums, his are all newer, Starclassic, and Pearl vision series. My younger sister can play, but I doubt she would really have use for eight plus sets.
I know my brother in law would love a set, but won't let me build or give one to him now will take one after I'm gone.
In the end it will have no bearing on me, it will be up to you guys ( vintage drum hounds) to find them on Craigslist, in junk stores, estate sales or where ever they will end up. I can try to control where they go after I'm gone but not really. Unless I sell them now, which so far has been really hard to do (for the normal reasons collectors can't sell things, ie markets bad, I'm still looking for the matching snare, I can't get what it's worth ect.)
I have come to accept the following idea:
I don't own them, I'm just custodian of them for a while.