I see many things mentioned, to which I can say "I resemble that!"
One thing I haven't noticed yet though: when setting-up\tearing-down my kits I always handle my drums by the shells or bottom edges of the rims (where most of the contact is with the drumhead hoop)....not by lugs or the outside portion of the rims.
I started this habit very early in my drumming career: immediatly after the 1st time I tore apart my WFL set to clean\polish the nickel plated hardware.
Sometimes others would try to help me pack-up after a gig and looked at me as if I were crazy when I told them not to touch the 'chrome'. With all the work it takes to disassemble\reassemble a set of drums for complete rehab, I still do this in an effort to get the most longevity between such tasks.
Call me OCD if you wish...but they're my drums & I'm the one who has to care for them.
Actually, I have found that guitar players are the ones who best understand and accept my 'quirk'.
MarkE
P.S. At least I haven't started wearing white cotton gloves when packing & unpacking, Yet.