That's a sweet Slingerland COW. I don't really need another Slingerland kit, but COW is high on my list if a nice one becomes available.
My gloves aren't white, just the cheap brown ones you can get in 10-packs at Home Depot.
I don't consider this OCD, but I eschew assistance in tearing down unless I need to vacate the stage immediately. Otherwise, I have a system in place that has been foolproof—so far—in assuring that nothing gets left behind. I also like to take my time in tearing down: That helps to ensure that everything is done correctly, but I primarily like to go slow to help relax.
By the same token, I usually like to get to gigs much earlier than necessary because I HATE hurried setups. It's not like I'm using rulers and calipers, but my preferred MO is to have at least 45 minutes between my final adjustment and downbeat.
Al