> posting for the first time I would think this was a pretty hostile place to hang which,
... it can be at times!
I've been subjected to way more than my share of 'angry-troll abuse' since I joined VDF. Thankfully, the incidents are few and far in-between... but they do happen. There's no glossing over that reality. You learn to deal with it and move on. Whizzing and pooting and fussing and fighting is rare, but it most certainly does happen.
So, new guy... don't let the occasional head-butting scare you off. There's a bunch of really great guys here. You just need to take the time to find out who they are and then simply ignore it when the occasional broo-ha-ha breaks out. The Mulligans can actually be very entertaining when viewed from the side-lines. When you are sucked into one of those soap-opera's, then it's not so entertaining. VDF is a cool place, but $hit does happen!
That's the real deal...
John